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David Farrier's avatar

Hi all - I’ve just read your beaut comments. It’s 1:05am in Utah, a long day and a 10 hour drive tomorrow. Looking forward to replying when the drive is over. Much aroha to all of you x

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It's foggy and cold in New Zealand this morning, and I look like a mixed wardrobe marshmallow in layers. I wanted to have my extra-large coffee outside with the trees and tree singers because I've had quite enough of humans today, and I've only been awake for less than an hour.

Not you, though, David. You're a nice human.

I'm still in my first year at university, I'm 23, and I won't pretend to know lots of things. Though I am learning our mental health systems are neglected and have been at capacity for years and years, probably since Cane threw that rock at Abel. (Why cane?) When we aren't looking after each other, it paves the way for more neglect and stones unturned or thrown and missed stop signs along the way.

I would rather be anywhere than the supermarket, so it's painfully ironic that it should be the only place I'm able to go so that I can get away from my stuffy home and crunchy flatmates. So now, I take headphones, and I listen to the Bee Gees. Now, I enjoy going because I know it's fuck loads safer than other countries, particularly Afghanistan right now. So I definitely can "be brave" and go to the damn supermarket with a damn mask on; I mean, put your god damn shoes on already, for fuck sake.

There are so many things we could be doing to keep others safe with the acknowledgement of privilege. It's unconscionable to me that some kiwis have an 'only the strong should survive' complex. Strong isn't a word I would use to describe myself; being a beneficiary with (a little PTSD and Depression), I would be stuck in America too right now, without any options, and certainly without money. It is the same disregard that some kiwis have in protesting their rights to freedom from a lounge chair. It astounds me that through all of these stories, experiences, and hardships, we are collectively sharing this experience, and every person has been affected. WHY is empathy so hard? Why is everything so hard?

Thank you for writing about what is happening for unheard kiwis away from home. Thank you for the extended coffee break; reading your work is very fun.

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