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Alicia's avatar

My daughter 4’11 and I 5’1” just attended a Lady Gaga concert this weekend as general admission. Not being able to see is a thing, but it’s a thing we are used to. The bigger issue we both have is that we seem to become invisible to other people in these situations. We have people come and stand directly in front of us, practically on top of us. Or when people are milling about before, they walk into us or point over our heads at who knows what. It’s exhausting enough craning our necks to be able to see anything but it’s especially tiring having to plant our legs and claim a small slice of personal space which we have paid to enjoy the evening. We used to move when people backed into us, or were dancing around and knocking into us. But now we just stand there, enjoying the concert from our low vantage point. I’m sorry people were jerks to you for being tall, it’s not any easier being short. Pretty sure we can learn to coexist, after all, who will get stuff on the high shelf for us❤️

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Yep, I’m a 5’11” woman who also happens to be fat. I get abuse from behind me and on both sides if I’m at concerts or at the theatre.

I’ve had so many nice old ladies yell at me, it’s very weird.

I buy two seats if I know the theatre has small seats, and then I get truly delightful people commenting that I’m selfish for taking up two good seats when two whole other people could have been to the show.

My favourite moment was when I was representing the company I work for at an event and we were the sponsors. I sat in the seat I was shown to, which was front row, next to the artistic director. The person was extremely angry so picked up their seat and slammed it down about 10cm left of where it had been, and just glared at me. They didn’t realise who I was until after the performance and gave a very begrudging thanks to my company for me to pass along.

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