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nyleve's avatar

Congratulations on the Skeptics award David, you have done amazing work this year.

It took me a few days to get over the poison in the shocking encounter with Mr Organ, and I will continue to worry about Jillian. Thanks to the writer of that review , spot on.

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Congrats on the award, so well deserved!

Some of the AI pics do tend to emphasise you really are Louis Theroux's younger, more handsome brother.

I'm now two years (almost to the day) out from leaving the sphere of my covert narcissistic sociopath. I've seen him a few times since and it's been interesting to compare my feelings from when we first broke up (for me, confusion, enormous grief, rage as I was yet to realise what had happened to me), to now.

I heard someone describe them as ghosts and that's the closest description that's resonated for me. I do agree there's a void, but the ghostly part for me is seeing little slivers of who I thought he was - I still have to remind myself he's not real, even after a boat load of therapy.

During my last encounter with him a few weeks ago, it felt like watching a toddler when they first learn to lie and you want to laugh because it's so obvious and yet they think they're being so clever. When I got back into my car I had this huge grin on my face and I awarded myself an A+ - I'd seen him clearly for who he was, I didn't feel triggered, and I had this glowing joy inside that I was no longer part of the... drama.

It also gives me joy to support you in your work. Hopefully, webworm and Mr Organ will help others from being abused and critically wounded. It's really hard to put an experience with someone like my ex into words. It often doesn't translate well and people look at you baffled. But watch a doco like Mr Organ or read your accounts of Arise and it's much easier for people to see it for themselves and that is pure gold. So, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

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