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Rowan V's avatar

If he wants deep pressure stimulation then he needs to buy a weighted blanket or a weighted stuffy like the rest of us do. A sensory sock or other deep pressure methods are also available. If he has high enough support needs to be asking random blokes (why always men?) to sit on him, he needs a carer because it is not safe for him or for others. His friend also needs to stop using resources from ABA to explain things, as ABA is regarded by the autistic community as abuse.

I have a whole rant about the way autistic men are allowed to get away with behaviour that autistic women are never allowed to [because of the way autistics perceived as boys and girls are treated as children], but I'll save that for another time. Any other autistic AFABs in here will probably immediately know at I mean though [because of our childhood experiences.]

*Edited for clarity

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Jess's avatar

Oh my GOD this pisses me off to no fucking end. My 22 year old son has had thousands of seizures, starting right before he turned 5. He still has them regularly. One of my worst nightmares is that he'll have one around people who think he's faking it or being deliberately belligerent (and get arrested). It's people like THIS FUCKING GUY who make me worry so!

For those unaware: NEVER restrain a person having a seizure. You want to help? Put something soft under their head if they are on hard ground, turn them on their side, and let the damn thing play out. If it lasts longer than 5 minutes, call an ambulance. Also, there are a bunch of kinds of seizures - my son has full tonic-clonic seizures, but he is completely conscious through the whole thing. He just can't speak because his body is no longer under his control for a few minutes.

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